One Of The Boldest Things You Can Do Is Let Go

It’s scary to let go. Still, it’s one of the healthiest decisions you can make, because sometimes it’s very difficult.

The past binds you, your  fears prevent you from coming to this necessary conclusion. Maybe you feel like you’ve failed.

But you have not lost; you have won.

You need to be very strong and aware that remorse and doubt will take over your mind, confusing you and making you want to go back.

Remember how brave you are. All in all, letting go takes more courage than almost anything else.

Letting go and getting rid of what you don’t need

You may not want to see it, but your addiction and fear of letting go show you that what you thought was so necessary is actually unnecessary. 

Think about it as you go through the clothes you are cleaning in your closet. Often you have clothes that you should have thrown away even resentment then. However, something makes you like them. It’s hard to get rid of something that was once important to us. 

Our social relationships are invaluable. We are social beings who have to deal with others.

However, relationships come with emotions, which means you suffer.  You enjoy happiness, you care about other people.

Ending a relationship that has lasted for years because it no longer works is not as simple as it may sound. You think about everything you’ve experienced together, and why you originally started to be together.

You sometimes blame yourself, but remember: if you gave it your all, there is no way it would continue to go through.

And what happens when another person leaves you? Differences always leave broken hearts. It’s not easy, it hurts, and you want to go back.

However, you will not realize that this attitude will hold you in the shackles of the past, which is no longer your present and will never be your future.

Fear lets go

If you’re having trouble letting go, it may be because your actions won’t help you, but will rather take you in the other direction.

You do it unconsciously, but sometimes negative emotions obscure your decision-making ability. They make you make a bad choice.

Think of the toxic relationship you found yourself in, without the ability to get out of it. Without realizing it, you may be feeding your anger or perhaps using the situation to feel like a victim.

Whenever you are unhappy, see if you are unable to let go.

It’s as if we humans have a kind of charm to painful experiences. They hook us and prevent us from seeing the goodness of life.

However, you can get out of this vicious spiral where you are stuck.

Letting go is liberating

Even if it hurts, even if you regret your decision, one thing that is true is that it is very liberating.

Consider this:

• Don’t be afraid to be alone:  You’re not actually alone, but you may feel lonely because you’ve just let go of something that was a big part of your life. However, you have so many things to look forward to, so this feeling won’t last long.
• Letting go doesn’t mean you stop loving:  The fact that you’re not with someone just about selfishness is an indication of how much you love him or her. Loving someone doesn’t mean owning them.
• You haven’t failed, you’ve learned something:  Sometimes we think other people are responsible for our happiness, but it’s a big mistake to think that way. You should not let others be responsible for your happiness. If you do this when they leave, you will feel empty.

Letting go is a decision  that brave people make,  and it is necessary. It’s hard, but that’s no reason not to do it.

There are times in your life when you need to let go of something or someone to move forward.